Kuwaiti Men & THE Wedding Ring

I waited a long time to write about this subject, thought I can win at the end but it seems that I’m losing or have already lost. The thing is, ever since I got married I wanted to change this thing with Kuwaiti men & let my husband be one of those unique ones but i failed. I wanted him to wear his wedding ring all the time, whenever we go out, it has to be on his finger. He only wore it when we first got married (melcha time), then we traveled to our honeymoon & he surprised me when he wore it to the airport & kept wearing it everytime we went out in Malaysia, when I myself didn’t take my wedding ring with me coz if it got lost i’d lose my mind.

BUT when we got back home, he started neglecting it, keeping the ring on the dresser or by his bed-side table. I keep reminding him & he starts saying “it’s huge, big, it’s annoying me”. Many times I asked him to take it & make it smaller but I think I was speaking to myself. One of our conversations regarding this subject went like this;

Swera: Why you’re not wearing your wedding ring?

M: I told you, it’s big.

Swera: take it to soug almubarkeya & make it smaller.

M: *silence*

Swera: This is our love bondage, this is how you show the world that we are married, that you’re mine & I’m yours . . . blah blah blah.

M: Swerty we don’t have to show the world anything, you know that I love you & our bondage is between us & in our hearts . . . blah blah blah.

& that’s how he silences me. After he says that sentence, I really dunno what to say but to be a lil bit upset (amed el booz) & then he promises to take it & and make it smaller. 6 months now & he still didn’t take it. Do I keep fighting for this cause or do I surrender? For ,e, the wedding ring is a must. Many men from other nationalities are wearing it all the time from different ages & religions. Leash (why) our men in Kuwait don’t?! There are a minority who wear it but trust me you can count those men with your fingers.  Probably, those men are not in love with their wives, don’t care about them but still they’re wearing the ring.

Kuwaiti men, what is it with you & the wedding ring?!

Categories: kuwait, Marriage, Men, Personal | 40 Comments

Romantic Man . . .

For Ladies Only . . . But Men Feel Free To Comment 😀

Categories: love, Men | 34 Comments

Spinster On The Loose

Yes I am, Swera is a spinster on the loose!

I’ve been called a spinster so many times by family members as a joke because I’m a the only girl who is not married! Well, my cousin who’s the oldest girl in the family got married 5yrs ago and I’m the one who’s supposed to get married after her, then my sister! but really does age matter? I mean the sequence! Does it?! for me i don’t care who gets married first but for old Kuwaiti women, it does!

Frankly, I really don’t care being called a spinster, a loser (yes I’ve been called that for just not getting married) or anything else! i mean yes it’s the cycle of life, yes we have needs, yes we all want to settle down and have a family! But i’m not gonna DIE because I couldn’t get married! I can’t go running in the streets in Kuwait chasing men, grabbing them from their lousy hair and forcing them to marry me . . . or shall I do that? 😛

Before, it used to depress me that I’m the only girl in the family and among my friends who’s not married and doesn’t have anything to do in this life! But I’ve made peace with this issue at the end of last year and I’m content and happy with my life right now! So it’s not a big deal for me! Thank god i have my own job, my father who’s supporting me in everything i do/want these days, aunts who are crazier than me and a grandma who’s somehow ashamed that her grand-daughter is still not married! or let’s say a spinster!

Yes granny is somehow ashamed! Everytime she sees my face she cries and my face becomes like this –> O_O! I love my granma alot, she practically raised me coz both parents were workaholic and I stayed with her all the time and I know that she worries alot about me, the people & the stupid ass society! I confronted her last week and i just lost it “Look granma, I know you feel ashamed that I’m not married, I know you’re worried that your friends will start talking soon about me being a spinster but you know what, let them say it, i don’t care, im not doing something wrong to be ashamed of and i’m proud of myself”! and then she started crying again! O_O My aunt kissed my head for saying that and granma tried to deny what i said, but deep down inside me i know she does!

Another incident was last week at granma’s house (all the drama happens there) and there were so many old ladies, some i like and some i dont! One of the oldies approached me and this weird convo took  place:

Oldie: Y zenech wallah, metzawjaaa?! (you’re so nice, you married?)

Swera: No im  not!

Oldie: weee ‘3ameee’6a 3ad esh7elwech! (what a waste, you’re beautiful)

Swera: *fake laugh* hee hee hee

Sheno y3ni ‘3ameetha?! What is “what a waste” supposed to mean!? Does my beauty have to be spent or whatever the verb is with a man?! can’t i enjoy it? I mean it’s my beauty, my face, my eyes, my hair, my huge nose, my lips, my ears, my etc! Why do i have to share it with a man? and if i don’t then it’s a waste!?

I’m out of words regarding this subject, it used to frustrate me alot but thank god not anymore! but sometimes I wish i can change the mentality of my granma and her likes! but i know i cant!

So beware . . . A Spinster on The Loose 😀

Imaginary Men Are The Best 😉

Categories: Marriage, Men, Personal | 35 Comments

Why ladies today are mostly SINGLE ?!

1-The nice men are ugly.
2-The handsome men are not nice.
3-The handsome and nice men are gay.
4-The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.
5-The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have no money.
6-The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think we are only after their money.
7-The handsome men without money are after our money.
8-The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don’t think we are beautiful enough.
9-The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.
10-The men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!
11-The men who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.



Categories: love, Men, RelationShips, Single | 10 Comments

Blog at