I Wish You All Joy & Happiness

It needs alot of effort & hard work to reach such point in your life! Where you become happy & content of what you have. Where you give more & expect less. Where you say Thank You Allah (el7mdellah) for what you have & for what you’re gonna get in the future. For feeling happiness & joy almost all the time (i’d be lying if I said all the time). For believing in the good of your society & country. Bless you Kuwait :*

Many people are telling me that “you’re still young” or “you haven’t seen it all”! Well I’ll tell you what? Losing my mother was the part that “I’ve seen it all”. i’ve hit rock bottom as many of you have read a couple of years ago. I totally lost hope in everything! But then suddenly, I smiled & felt that I’m happy with what I have. After that i got married. I wasn’t expecting it at all, but Allah blessed me with a good man (not gonna say great because no one is πŸ˜› ). And i was very happy, over the moon happy! But then, Allah took something from me, I became very depressed & sad all the time! It has nothing to do with my marriage life! It was something personal. After that, I got over it. Said to myself “I’m gonna live the way I’m supposed to live & enjoy my life, enjoy what I have even if it’s not that much”. & Guess what? I became happy & content again πŸ™‚

I’ll tell you a story that happened to me a couple of days ago. As you know that my car’s ABS system has to be changed. Guess what? It costs KD 600. i was like “it’s not even a luxurious car” so it’s totally not worth it. I’m jobless,& i’ll be having a huge event soon! Baby Reception, souvenirs, cover sheets, my own gown/darra3a for the reception! All that will cost ALOT for oneday but I’m happy about it! It’s totally worth it! Anyways, so i have many expenses on my shoulder; my car & my reception. I thought I’m being strangled but i kept thanking Allah (o astaghfer all the time). Guess what happens? Social Security calls me (ta2meenat) & they want me to go & visit one of their branches! aha aha aha, I don’t need more people cutting money from me! They already took from me over KD 3000 last year, I can’t handle such amount this year. I prayed & said that I’m content with what I have & what will happen will be for the best. I went there & taraaaaaa ta2meenat wants to give me money (smth from my mom’s salary allah yer7amha) Isn’t life amazing πŸ˜€ I started breathing again!

Life is beautiful & Allah is there if you can only connect with him, you’ll feel the love & generosity coming your way in no time.

Yesterday, I was inspired to do something that i’ve been wanting to do my whole life. I said to myself “even if I fail, at least I tried”. Dad & husband are supporting me! Friends are willing to help! What more can I ask for?

I can feel the doors opening for me πŸ™‚

Therefore, I’m writing this post to lift you up if you’re down. To give you hope if you’ve lost it. To make you feel content if you want more & can’t get it.

I wish you all, one by one; all the happiness in the world! No matter what you’re going through in this life; make sure that it’s only temporary & it will fade in no time! Something good will happen to you! Just start to believe! Give more & don’t wait to receive! Take a look at the suffering in the world, see what you have & what they don’t have! We’re blessed to live in a country like Kuwait. I wish that everyone will find peace inside themselves. Spread the love, happiness & joy! Don’t just keep it for yourself! Some people need it!

I love you all … & to those who don’t love me! Well, I’ll try to love you but I can’t promise i’ll be able to do it πŸ˜›

This post was inspired by the chitto chat i had with Samah Queslati.

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13 thoughts on “I Wish You All Joy & Happiness

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  2. this is really what i want to read honestly πŸ™‚ I’m kind of losing hope of having love relationships then marriage a7is ma ynf3 in our society but then i worry too much of not getting married ever but ur post is making me feel great and that i should be grateful for whatever i’m having and enjoy the moment with whatever i have πŸ™‚ ur right, thank you so much for this lovely post it really helped. god bless you.

    • believe in the good my dear o nshallah kher! whatever happens to u then it’s for the best! u’ll not be able to see it now but maybe in the future πŸ™‚

      im glad that i helped a bit :*

    • 7amood

      hello ‘pauline’.. I would like to address a message from the heart to you and to every girl out there who is afraid of not getting married..and might be tempted into any relationship outside marriage.

      first of all, there is no such thing as love before marriage. Pre-marital relationships stem from 3 things:

      – lust
      – fear
      – desperation

      ‘shahwa’ or lust, is when you want someone to give you their attention, to tell you how beautiful you are, the lust for companionship..the lust for sexual relationships etc.

      Desperation is when a girl is desperate to find mr. right so she is willing to believe anyone and anything just to fill the void..and this desperation stems from

      Fear. The fear of not getting married, fear of ending up alone. So the girl starts to defy logic and go with her heart- even though deep inside she knows what she is doing is wrong.

      to address those issues, and to keep this message from dragging on, I will get to the point.

      please remember that ‘il arzaq 3la allah’. You cannot force marriage by trying to connect with someone outside marriage. Innocent txts, innocent emails.. there is no such thing as innocent. relationships that start that way never end well.

      If GOD has intended for you to get married, rest assured, you will get married. if you are not meant to be married in this afterlife, inshallah if GOD grants us all heaven, not only will you be a millions times more beautiful than you are now, but you will marry someone who has the beauty and soul of every man earth has known. and unlike this finite life- how long do we get to live..until 80 if we are luck?- you will live with him in an infinite in a world without sadness, sorrow or infedility.

      I really wish I could have said what I said in arabic..as I am not too good with words.. but to wrap things up, all I want to tell you is that whatever happens to you is what is best for you..whether you get married or not..or whether you get to marry zac efron or not (yes, i clicked on your blog πŸ˜‰ if God has intended it for you to happen, then it will happen.

      if it doesnt, prayers and patience..life is short, and its not worth wasting over negative thoughts.

      take care πŸ™‚

  3. That’s sweet of you, and your words lingers in the mind… I wish you the same, and more.. W3sallah inshallah ytamim 3laich wesahil 2mourich.. We love u too, and I’ll be waiting lama idsheen shahrich and post something full of drama and madness due to ur hormones lool ;p

    Take care, Wl7imdilah 3la kl 7al πŸ™‚

    • aha aha aha i’ll be too scared to post anything, or maybe i will but u’re gonna have to dimiss whatever i say coz it wont be me πŸ˜›

      mwaaaah :*

  4. Allah etamem 3alaich and yeah I know hehe the moment you let go of everything and felt happy was the moment you found the true happiness in forming a family of your own! I’m so happy for you and wish you all the best and your words really are wise in which they tell a person just to be thankful for what they have and God will soon give you more.

    Allah edoom el far7a 3al jamee3 o ya36ee kel wa7ed whatever he wants πŸ˜€

  5. Shaytuna

    Since u mentioned that u want to cheer us up ! Please do pray for my mother she is very Sick Outdoors !! Maybe GOD inShalla will hear ur prayers o egawemha bil salama inshallaa !! ..

    Allah Yarzegech o yer7am ur Momy !!

    • allah yshafeeha ya rb o ygawemha besalama o yjma3kom ma3a ba3ath! i can totally relate to the situation u’re going through!

  6. You are inspiring. If you could be happy again with the loss of a loved one, and so forth, then you are a strong woman. For some people, it’s a harder struggle, but reading your blog makes it sseem possible. Thank you for this.

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