Talking, Talking, Talking, BUT . . .

You know which kind of people I hate? They are the ones who talk & talk & talk showing off that they’re very important individuals in this life when they’re actually lower than you, whether financialy or socially. I mean, why would you say things about yourself that are not true? Why would you say you’ll do things that you won’t do? Why would you say you won’t do such things when you know exactly that you’ll end up doing them? Why lie to people?

I get life is not easy, you are born living a certain life but things turn upside down in the middle of the road & you kinda get depressed and embarrassed of what you have & don’t have. I get that you sometimes wish you have the life of certain people living around you & you wanna be just like them but this just cannot be!

Why can’t people be content, make peace with their life, accept it as it is & continue living with what you have. Trust me, Allah gave you something very precious which you cannot decide what is it until you lose it!, and then you’ll know what you’ve been blessed with. If something is delayed then it’s for your own good, if something isn;t happening then it’s for your own sake, if you don’t end up with the life you’ve always dreamed of then that’s because a better life awaits you, whether on earth or in heaven.

I’ve always believed that if you’re content with what you have, then you’ll get more in a short notice. If you accept the little money that you gain, then Allah will bless you with more, in a way or another! You’ll end up with something really good & pleasant. But don’t be greedy, don’t pretend you have the perfect life when you don’t, don’t pretend you’re something big when you’re just an ordinary individual, don’t be jealous of what other people have. Wish them the best, it will get back to you. Wish for a better life, better opportunities, you’ll get it when the time is right.

Be content & admit what you are, what you have . . . Don’t be embarrassed, this is your life & this is how you’re destined to live . . . accept it, accept your life & you’ll have a peace of mind!

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18 thoughts on “Talking, Talking, Talking, BUT . . .

  1. Sa7 Kalamich!

    I agree with it 100%! Where is the fun in showing off that you have stuff when all you’re making is enemies from friends and not gaining their support. The showing off a person does or the empty air talk just gives off a negative vibe that pushes everyone away!

    Thanks for the post!

  2. 7amood

    well said.

    جاء في الصحيح عن رسول الله – صلى الله عليه وسلم – أنه قال : ” إن أمر المؤمن كله عجب ، لا يقضي الله له قضاء إلا كان خيرا له ، إن أصابته ضراء صبر فكان خيرا له ، وإن أصابته سراء شكر فكان خيرا له ” .

    another one..

    ” كُنْتُ رِدْفَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَ: (يَا ابْنَ عَبَّاسٍ ارْضَ عَنِ اللَّهِ بِمَا قَدَّرَ وَإِنْ كَانَ خِلَافَ هَوَاكَ، فَإِنَّهُ مُثْبَتٌ فِي كِتَابِ اللَّهِ) قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فَأَيْنَ وَقَدْ قَرَأْتُ الْقُرْآنَ؟ قَالَ: فِي قَوْلِهِ: (وَعَسَى أَنْ تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَكُمْ وَعَسَى أَنْ تُحِبُّوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ شَرٌّ لَكُمْ وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ)”

  3. I love your new Banner!

    maraat people wants to fit in the group and then pretends all the way, to accept them which is not cool at all bs shnsawee fee nas 3ndhom mr’6a masakeen yksroon 5a6rii ppl like that

    • allah y3afee Jacqui 🙂

      Trust me dear, tehy r well aware of themselves, they r not sick! its just because they’re not content with what they have!

  4. for some reason 7sait g3da tkalameen 3n my topic what I wanna get in 2012:( which I’ll never get them until i work 😦 sucks to be unemployed and poor:Pp

    • hahaha i hvnt read it 😛

      we dream of hving things but we dont go walking around people & saying that for ex “my husband will get it to me on our anniv” when u know that he won’t handle its price! u got what i mean?

  5. la bl3aks swera tara it is sick, if they keep doing it, at first they’re not aware but then they enjoying to pretend and lying, it is sickness

  6. Totally get what u mean. I’ve met my own share of these kind of people. They’d act so low as to make up things happening in their life which ends up to be nothing but lies just to get your attention/pity/likeness or whichever. I hope this is a wake up call for some people:)

    • yeah i really hope so! they should wake up n realize what they hv in this life & appreciate it!

  7. Standy

    i am sorry 😦

    i wont do it agian 😛

    i wont BRAG or tell you what i have and dont… but just for the record, i know your jelouse 😀 heheeh..

    Miss you alot :*

  8. i totally agree with you and get what you mean. the people who are like that are insecure. its good that you raised such a topic. a lot should learn pokeeeee

  9. They’re probably ashamed or feel insecure. But walking around bragging about things they don’t live up to is annoying as hell! Wayid naas chithe! They build themselves up with talk when in reality they don’t have the actions to back up their claims.

    • *sigh* yes yes & yes! they’re insecure as hell, jealous & hate what Allah has blessed them with & want more! They keep on talking & bragging when they know they won’t be able to live to these expectations!

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