مو أصيله؟؟؟؟

هالموضوع في بالي من زمان بس مادري ليش ما كتبت عنه! سامحوني علي الكلام اللي بقوله بس حدي متنرفزه و منبطه جبدي!

الكل مر عليه هالموضوع سالفة الزواج و اذا البنت اصيله و لا مو اصيله و لا عيميه و لا فيها عرج من جنسيه ثانيه! جم وحده بوحده انرفضت للزواج و السبه انا اهيه مو اصيله و لا مو من مواخيذ هالعايله! ماختلفنا كل واحد ياخذ من نفس مستواه الاجتماعي و المادي! بس اذا اثنين حبوا بعض و البنت اخلاقها من احسن مايكون و من طبقه متوسطه و ماعليهم قاصر! شنو اللي يمنع ان هالولد يتزوجها؟! اتقولك الام لا والله مو اصيله؟ شنو يعني بالضبط؟ من وين يايبينها البنيه؟ من الشارع مثلا؟ ، لا لقيطه وانا مادري؟؟ ليش صارت عندنا هالعنجهيه و التفلسف؟ الاصيل نازل من السما وانا مادري و لا شنو بالضبط؟!

لا و اخرتها تشوف هالولد او اي ولد ثاني متزوجلي وحده من بره لايثه مع الاولي و التالي و بدون ماياخذ راي اهله؟! نفعكم الاصل و الفصل الحين؟ عفتوا البنت الشريفه العفيفه و  ياتلكم اللي مابقى احد ما صادقته؟ بشوف اصل و فصل عيالكم شراح اصير فيه؟ لا و مايندرى هالبنت شرعيه و لا مو شرعيه؟ الله اعلم

بدوامي القديم كان اغلبه اجانب! مرت علي كذا وحده اجنبيه نتزوجه كويتي و مو اي كويتي!!! يا حبيبي ولد عايله و فلوس و مركز! و حده منهم تدرون من وين قابلها؟ كانت تشتغل في ملهى تعري (ستربتيز) و الله يا عمي زين؟ لا و بعدين هالريال الله هداه و تدين و حجب زوجته!!!!

و في قصه ثانيه بعد! واحد ماخذلي وحده اجنبيه عندها بنت غير شرعيه من البويفريند القبلي! و لا متبني هالبنت الغير شرعيه و معطيها اسمه الحبيب و متكفل فيها ماديا! و هم ولد عايله!!!! اشق هدووومي مثلا؟! وربي شي احرررررر

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  1. hy swera long time i didnt get online miss u…

    and about the marriage the girls o 5a9tan el kuwaities wayed yt2throon bswalf el a9l o ma el a9l o el rayal ymshi 3ala shoor oma aw e5ta its happen with me but i end up want to meet a girl my self then marry her..,its sux these days ;s

    • heeey Mhmd yeaah u’ve been hiding man 🙂 missed u too, update ur blog plzzzz 😛

      yeah bs lesh 3la elbnt lekweteya mathaln? 7ata el5alejeya b3d! y3ni elwas5a 9arat ashraf mn enetheefa al7een!?

      • lool ma adri 3nkom entaw wayed titfalsfoon etah w7da feha 3eeb o mo 3agbtkom tswonha mo zena o lo wa7da kela 3yob o 3agbtkom mlak b3yonkom 😛

      • mo 3n el w95a el nas al7en tdwr wa7da tfhma bdon ma ytklm al7en ele tit
        3la o chii m7d 9obha..,ybon w7da 3ala 6ool bl m’9moon

        o mn jitha thanya el 7rem ga3d y5rbon 3ala nfshoom o ygr’9on eb3’9 ya3ni low wa7d ygol 7g oma 3n w7da la feha o feha o lmn el om tlagi w7da feha blawi twa7il t8n3ni enha mlaak

      • e7na shakoo! Mhmd lesh galabt esalfa 3lay :S ana ga3da at7acha 3n el ahalehm yetfalsefon wegolon mana5eth 7g 3yalna ella a9eela bs a5ratha weldha ma5ethli wa7da la yn3rf oboha mn omha 🙂

  2. jdsf

    بصراحة شبابنا الحلوين من خلال نوعية زيجاتهم الاجنبية

    يتبن ان الاخلاق والشخصية الزينة تعتبر اخر اهتماماتة

    حتى الجمال ما يهتم فية الكويتى مسكين اى وحدةاجنبية ولا عربية عطتة وية قط نفسة عليها

    ولا بمذتج شفتى خليجى ياخذ فلبينية وسيلانية وأثيوبية ولا متزوج خداممتم

    مشكلتة أن ذوقة منعدم وهذة تخرب عوايل

  3. تبين الصراحه ولا لا؟ ترى سالفة مو اصيل-مو اصيله كبش فداء حق وايد شباب و بنات..بمعنى ان وايد شباب يتعرفون على بنات ويكون معاها علاقة حب لكن ما يبيها بشكل جدي في يعطيها سالفة اهلي ما يرضون واقفين بويهي وتطلع سالفة الاصالة ولا لو صج يبي لا تقوليلي اهله يوقفونا عن قرار زواج بلي يحبها غصبن عليهم بيخضعون ويحترمون رايه حتى لو بعد فتره راح يخضعون للامر الواقع ومثل ما قلتي كويتيين ياخذون بعض الاجانب -اللي دون المستوى – وهم اهلهم ما قالو شي.. انا ما انكر ان سالفة الاصيل والاصيله موجوده ليلحين لكن ما زال القرار بيد اللي يبي يتزوج

    • Taz ymkn cham walad esawi hal 7araka bs tara a’3leb hashay ekoon mn 9oob elahal o bethat el om!!!

      o methel maglt elqarar ekoon beden elwalad!

  4. Same Problem

    I’m in the same situation, my dad is kuwaiti and my mom is not, and guess, we have a good reputation but they want w7da ela a9eela y3ni lazim kuwaitiyaaaaaaaa !! mom and dad !! ;/ and funny is that I study at the best Uni, wearing hijab, well behaved lady, not so smart but at least an open person so why they don’t take a girl from manners than 3ayla meno ma meno aw lazim pure kuwaiti madre shsalfaa, awalan kelenaa mn banii adam, y3ni kelena bashaar, o thaniyan ohma sheno btzawajoon el mara y3ni wela bs el guy takes woman madre ana ashoof el kl yabee marrying her ;/ …

    yes I heard that too about kuwaiti man marrying a stripper, but they’re still in Western, they fell in love and guess he’s mn 3aylaa well known o la ahalaa ma ydroon 3an zwajhom o his wife now is working as a bar tender. 9iiij 8ahaaar, walla ana 5ayfaa r7 a3anas eb hal salfaa 😦 madre lesh a7is 76% r7 a3anas etha our society chthy !

    • LOL mara7 et3anseen sweety, u’re still in uni! ana shagoool 3yal 😛

      nshallah rabbech kateblena ne9eeb a7sn mn hathola elhelag! e6ayeboon le6ayebat wal 5abethoon lel5abethat!

      bs hathy 7obat bnat wayed! 5al el omhat yestansoon be3yalhom wa7fadhom!

  5. شر البليه مايضحك
    في من كدا كتيييييييييييييييييير ودايمن تحصل وبرضو مايتعلمو

  6. اي لي صارت كويتيه سالوا عن 7 يد اللي ذابت عظامه من قرن ولي صارت غريبه بدون لايشاورهم ياخذها وجنه العيد ولا احد يتكلم..

    يقولج واحد رايح تايلند يخربط وعجبته وحده منهم قال يبيها قالوا هذي مو زينه ماتنفع لك تعرف وايد قبلك قال احسن متدربه !!

    بس كفوه لكل ساقط لاقط ..

    وهالنوعيه احنا مانبيهم الله لايبيهم ..

    • ee wallah kalamech 3adel! malat 3alehm e7a9elhm 3ad!

      5atfeedhom ellaytha!

      allah yfekna mnhom o yrzgna belli a7sn mnhom nshallah 🙂

  7. hatha mawthoo3 mawjod ibkil bait.

    thats y makint atshara6 mn hal na7ya..li2ana inzalat ayat “bilkibar”(arrogance).inzalat aya ina ilwa7id ytzawaj ilmara mn malha o jamalha o deenha.inzalat aya ina yitzawaj ilrayal mu2mina a7san min mushrika and vice versa..”wali2umatin mu2mina khayrun mn mushrika walaw a3jabatkum” o kil hatha la asbab..bas sorry ilnas ma9ar ildeen ib3ainhum shay..wilmushkila ili yitshari6on uhma ili jidam ilnas 3arfen ildeen 9a7..wilrayal/ow ilbint in ishtahaw ismi3aw kalam ahlahum..witha ishatahaw 3anidaw 3la ili 9ij ydish mazajhum 7ata lo 3alagoltich allah yastir 3alaihum..ana with ina ilwa7id yisma3 kalam ahala bas bilma3qol, itha shay maydish il3agil lazim fe munaqasha..o we see a lot of ppl mitzawjen qa9ban 3alaihum happy in front of ppl and not happy behind closed doors..not all, sub7ana allah hatha ilni9eeb

    another thing mn na7yat itha wa7id 7abla wa7da o faj2a gal ahali yaboon chithi o chithi o we have to break up (and same with girls)..ma7ad galikum u make that person fall for u and a relationship dam inik/inich matadreen ahalich shinu yaboon o 100% yadron shinu ahalhum yaboon bas yabon yistanson o 9a7 maybe some ygdiron yi2athron 3ala ahlhum..bs mayfakron ina i3yal ilnas mu li3ba…o mithil matsawon biy9er ibkhawatkum the same..

    • Ure totally right! Bs mn na7yat elli e7bon! Tra u can’t help who u fall in love with! Beside he/she would think he/she is the one n that his family would understand n like her:him bs unfortunately it doesn’t work out that way

      • i just blame the man;/ bcoz uhwa beda kilshay..ive seen girls get hurt after wasting years of their lives and until this day theyre not married bcoz the man mafata7 ahala at first and when they disagreed he didnt fight for her and got married o left her..:/

      • yeaah me too! i know sm girls who suffered from this issue :S

  8. ايها الفاخر جهلا بالنسب *** انما الناس لام ولاب
    هل تراهم خلقوا من فضه *** ام حديد ام نحاس ام ذهب
    هل تراهم خلقوا من فضلهم *** هل سوى لحم و عظم و عصب
    انما الفخر لعقل ثابت *** وحياء و عفاف و ادب

    و طبعا كلنا نعرف حديث الرسول (ص) لافرق بين عربي و عجمي الا بالتقوى

    بس تعالي فهمي بعض الناس الي ذابحهم التعصب والجهل

  9. Sometimes families teach their kids that they have to marry (a9eel/a9eela). It comes to the parents educating their kids.

    • Yes! I had a friend who’s not from a family that’s known as a9eela in Kuwait but they r very wealthy n her mom is not a9eela also She always used to say Ana matzawaj Ella a9eeel! Na3m?! Told her enty el a9eela mathalan?! U only hv money that’s it! Beside sheno a9l o fa9l! Shra7 efedech y3niiiii!!

  10. And on another note (phew, I can now type in english, mesa3 9arli sa3tain bs 3ashan a6ba3li kelmetain bil 3arabi! hehe) . . . anyways, on another note: sometimes it’s the other way round: wa7ed “mo a9eel” ib mafhoom b3th ilnas y7eb wa7da bint 3ayla aw yen3ejeb feeha oo yabeeha zawaj oo ehya ham tabeeh oo ma 3indaha ey mane3 takhtha wetshoofa munaseb laha ka zoj oo ahalha yarfethoon lana “mo a9eel”. Oo I’m with Tazmania, when a man wants to get married, usually he can yakheth ili yabeeha gha9ban 3la ahala, bs hal bnaya ili tabi wa7ed “mo a9eel” ib nathrat ahalha shetsawi il maskeena?!!! Lil asaf fee nas yfathloon ina bent’hum takheth wa7ed shireeb sikeer akhlaaq min3adma la sama7 Allah bs “weld 3ayla” wela takheth wa7ed 3la khuluq oo deen bs “mo a9eel”, oo yama fee banat 3anesaw ib sebat ahalhum lil asaf! ya3ni 3indehum t3anes wela tezawaj wa7ed “mo a9eel” 7ita law kanat akhlaaqa 3alia

    • LOOOL chan sawet copy paste 🙂 hehe

      yeah bs what if that guy really wants to marry the girl bs ahalha m3andeen! ya5eth’ha mn wara ahalha?! ehya elbnt mara7 terthaha 7g nas’ha!

      o methel maglt 9ij fi ahal 3ndhm y5thooon sekeer 3rbeed bs a9eel wala ta5eth wa7ed mo7taram o m2adab bs enna mn 6baqa ws6a!

  11. Hanan

    غريبة هالدنيا! من متى الناس يسألون عن الأصل؟ احنا بعايلتنا ما عندنا هالشي بس متعصبين إن الواحد ما ياخذ إلا من نفس العايلة.
    و سارونة طولي بالج ترا كل شي خيره و الخيره فيمايختاره الله.
    ذكرتيني بوحدة تقول ما آخذ لولدي إلا أصيلة من عايلتنا و مثقفة و مادري شنو و آخرتها خذت وحدة شهادة ماكو و الولد جامعي و البنت الله يستر عليها رقلة و الأصل اللي مهتهمة فيه حطته آخر شي و البنت كللش مو من مواخيذهم و لما ذكرناها بكلامها قبل قالت نصيب شنسوي!! و الولد متحسف الحين ما يبيها

    • Hanoon ana ba3d ma9aratli hasa;fa lel7een wella chan masekat lat7ateen lol 😛

      bs tethakart salfat cham wa7da mn rfeejati o enqatheeet glt 5al afa’6fe’6 bel blog 😀 bs wallah tara shay 7adda e7er o eqeth!

  12. أنا أكثر شي يبطون جبدي اللي يقولون نبي ناخذ لنا وحده من برا لأنه البنت الكويتية الحين حدها مو شريفة

    أي شي!! واللي برا عندهم سالفة الجنس قبل الزواج عاااااادي

    حدها حدها السالفة تبط الجبد والحظ قايم بس على الهيلق والشلأ
    السنعه ما تتزوج!

    اللي باط جبدي أكثر إنهم يتشيحطون زياده لأنه في بنات مينن قاطين روحهم أشكره إلا تبي واحد غني من جذي يشوفون نفسهم! يعني لو كان أصيل وغني يعني نازل من السما! آخرة الدنيا موت شنو راح تنفعج فلوسه

    والله البوست برد جبدي!!

    • wallah entay elli baradtay chabdi hehe 😛

      ma3aleeeh edenya ‘3dara wallah! eb yakloonha bedenhom!

  13. *Sigh* Hal mawthou3 7asas. Wlwa7d ma yadri shallah yaktblh. Bs ana bagol shay, lazm elwa7d yakhth nas mthl be2tah o mn mowa5eth’hum! mehi ga9rah elsalfah 3la ina tkoun elbnt san3ah wa5laqha ynsh’hd laha. alwa7d ya7md rabah ina yntmi 7ag qabelh mafeha 5al6 o that nasb 6ayb 🙂 lama elrasol 9alh allah 3laihi waslm gal “la farq baina 3arabi wa3jmi ela bltaqwa. True maku farg bainhum 3nd rabhum ela bltaqwa. lakn el3rj dasas! Ya3ni lets be realistic ana rabyah b2eha 3la 2o9ol o 3adadt o taqleed, arou7 a7bli mathaln 3eemi?! no offense. 3ndna rab3 3ayam bs ma inasbhum!! ag3d ar6n ma3ah ya3ni?! 7ta 7achyi blq8i ra7 ykhtlf ma3ah! ma ra7 ykoun fh insjam 2asasn!

    Let me put it that way. For e.g. ytqadm li wa7d akhlaq, wsan3 we9ali lakn mu mn mowakhethna! wegolouli laish tarftheen whwa san3 wakhlaq we9ali?! agolhum 7ta 9beenah san3 wakhlaq we9ali inasba ya3ni?! of course la! I don’t know if u get my point. Wayd banat 5athaw reyayeel mu mn mowa5eth’hum, wal7een mayteen izawjoun i3yalhum 7g 3awayl nasabhum 6ayib! yt7asfoun!

    3awayl blderah akbarha wasmanha 9eet’hum wain, 5ali6aw o 5arowha ibwa5that’hum. Lakn klmn y3rf ma bh 3la golat’hum 🙂

    elmawthou3 6oweel lw ba7achi fh, bs inshallah ma7d yz3l mn kalami. Wnshallah kl wa7d ya5ith 3la mishtahata o britha ahalh, wltawfeeq liljamee3 🙂

    • we do2i ya mazeeka lol 😛

      I got ur point sweety! bs ana mo qa9di chethy! y3ni ofcourse esenni ya5eth seneya weshe3i ya5eth she3eya wele7’6eri ya5eth 7’6ereya welbdewi ya5eth bdeweya! bs elli yabi y6l3 3n hashay yet7amal enatayej mn wara hazawaja!

      ana elli 7arrni lama tkon wa7da 7’6ereya bnt 3ayla bs mn 6baqa metwas6a lama y7ebha wa7ed bs ahala yarfethonha wesebba enna ehya mo a9eela?! o a5ratha layethli 3la wa7da mn barra! hni elqahar!

  14. Ali

    The peoblem is dhino tafseer il a9ala? I mean how many names do you want? How maby years in his ancesyory you need to know
    Ya3ni ana 3eemy bas agdar ayeeb a9linla 700 BC. Would that make me a9eel enough or is it because we came from iran a 100 years ago were not a9eleen. Life is indeed weird

    • Ali

      Yes i know spellimg mistakes wayed bas im fat fingering the damn iphone keyboard

      • lol it’s ok!

        btw tara esalfa mo bs 3nd esenna even 3nd eshe3a! i know many she3a/3yam friends they say e7na mana5eth mn hal 3ayla coz e7na a9lna asyad wohma la! so the problem is everywhere!

  15. ma 3ndhum salfa…

  16. لاحول ولاقوة الا بالله

    و لا متبني هالبنت الغير شرعيه و معطيها اسمه الحبيب و متكفل فيها ماديا! و هم ولد عايله!!و لا متبني هالبنت الغير شرعيه و معطيها اسمه الحبيب و متكفل فيها ماديا! و هم ولد عايله!!

  17. Nofers

    Wallah to tell u the truth, I was very chocked when I saw this issue in the kuwaiti society. I never saw that in the university. My brother knowing more kuwaiti’s than I did warned me about it, but I thought it was all hot air. Seriouesly god help u
    Guys… And I wonder what I will do when my daughter grows up. In Saudi we have 2 major thing hijazi or najdi… As I understood it Aseel originally originates from Najd, qassim? Anyhow, I did encounter a woman who told me off that I was not Kuwaiti, and told me ” weeeeeee mo kuwaitia?” my only is response is simple.. I am not bedoien or terretorial, My father is makkawe ( from Makkah) and my mother is from Madinah, where r u from again?
    Sorry guys… But Allah yekooon fee 3onkom, I judge on personalities.. Not last names

    • hey Nofers, wallah missed u :* where hv u been!?

      this issue is with families that hv big names here in Kuwait! i dont judge by names! i judge by personality, akhlaq, deen, adab, thaqafa!

      bs fi nas 3ndehom tafaha o safaha mo 6abi3iya o they only care about names n money!

  18. bu7usain

    who defines whats a9il and whats not?
    some1 please define a9il to me

    • I myself dont know exactly! for those families it’s about ur origins, from which tribe and which area! bs seriously! we all came from *a9el* o from a certain area!

  19. You are sooo right and i always say that.. O tadreen marrat ako banat zaineen o they have bad brother or relatives, why judge her on them? I think each one of us represents him/herself..

    Amma mithl ma giltay about families.. I honestly don’t care about families and stuff i don’t even know much about Kuwaiti families.. people laugh at me because I don’t know about the origins of families o if they are sinna/si3a/3ayam/3arab.. How would I know EVERYTHING and every family? fathya ana?! looool when i speak to ppl i never ask ” bint mino?” NEVER! Shako? then my family would ask me and I am clueless lol I honestly am friends with ppl because i like them for who they are not origin, colour / religion.. blah blah blah..

    Chinna 6ila3t barra el mawthoo3 bas walla 6alla3t 7arriti from something thank you :*** LOL

    • looool hehe e5thay ra7tech 🙂 yeah la o fi nas b3d yes2elon hathy meno tezawejat, weld meno o omma bnt meno bla bla bla n vice versa!

  20. Big names small name who cares?!! I know i don’t! Aslan I don’t know what is the meaning of ” mo min miwakhthna?” Ya3ni shino?? 3ishtaw!

    LoL ishfini l have to leave your blog wela kil eshwayya i remember something o aktibah here looooooool

    • ahhahahaha afa 3alech bs elbet beitech :*

      eeh meno mowa5eethkom 3shan e3rfoon how popular r u!!! cheba7 wayh! :/

  21. Sadly our societies etrakiz 3ala il exterior o ashya2 tafha o yensoon il jawhar. E7na tarabaina ib hal mujtama3 3ala chithy ina we judge everyone o even if there is nothing to judge we have to invent something.
    Intay tekalmtay 3an il zawaj bs ta5ayalay 7ata 3ala il friendship hal shay mawjod, katha mara itmur 3alay teyeeni wa7da itgoli “shlon itkalmeen flana ehya mo mn nafs il 6abaqa wila ildeeen aw il mathhab” Shhal 7achi il fa’6i! Flana bakalimha coz ana metafqa ma3aha bil afkar o arta7laha mali she’3il ib ashya2 thaniya..
    Madri mita ra7 enba6il tafriqa o ne7terimhm 3ala a5laghm o enjazat’hm mo 3ala ma’6ahr 5adda3a o asami rannana o ta7t il sawahi dawahi

    • whaaaat???? seriously,,,even in friendship?! hathy b3d ma marrat 3lay! shesalfa wen ga3deen e7na?! o rbbi hathola nas tafheen o ma3ndehom la mabda2 wala a5laq!

  22. الزواج قسمه و نصيب 🙂

  23. Nemo

    يعني من كلامج جنه المو أصيلين ميتين على الأصيلين
    ترى في وايد عوايل مو أصيلة ترفض الأصيلين
    الأصل ماياب لهم الجمال والأخلاق والعلم والدين
    !!!!!!

    • No sweety fahamtini ‘3la6 🙂

      ana ga3da atkalam bs 3n neq6a wa7da elli ehya lama elwalad el a9eel yabi yetzawj bnt mo a9eela (in their definition) bs ahala yg3edon yetfalsefon! o a5ratha elwalad metzawejli w7da lalha la a9el wla fa9el o matadre meno oboha mn 5alha!

  24. اشكرج علي اثارة نقطة حساسة منتشرة في مجتمعنا المتخلف فكري ,كل منا يعيش في عالم الاوهام وقصص ليلي وليلي ويرسم احلام وردية وحين ياتي وقت الجد والتطبيق ينصدم بافكار رجعية من الواقع لااعلم متة هالمجتمع يفوق من سباتة ويبدا عهد العولمة والتنمية والرقي بالافكار والاشياء المحسوسة قبل الماديات,قلبي محروق وايد بسبة هالشي
    وشاكرلج

  25. Hathe ilKuwait 9al 3l nbi … tflsf 3l fa`9i mafehom isha5on ila 3la b3`9

  26. hmmm , ilyom re7t markaz sil6an il9b7 wala ashof kuwaity in his 40’s with his english/american wife (ajnabiya)
    late 30’s maybe ,baaai’6aaaa shaqraaaaa 6weeelaaa LOL , chan atethakar ur post , i actually didnt get pissed or anything 3ady , mithil ma qalaw ilzawaj qisma o na9eeb

    feeh asbaab WAAAYED laish ilkuwaity ma ya5eth ilkuwaitiya o ytzawaj il ajnabiyaa , i can mention some for you , which i will tell you when i see you , bas 1 of the main reasons , ina ilkuwaitiya maharha GHALI!! o mota6aleba and she wants everything o intay u know what i mean bas ham ma aby a3ameem , liana min alghaba2 ilta3meem , bas most of them are 🙂

    ps: feh kuwaitiyat ytzwjon ajaneb aw gher kuwaityeen , y3ne hal wa’63 3adyy .

    bas maw’6oo3 il a9el maw`6oo3 6weel 3aree’6 ham akalmech feeh b3den 😉

    • Noon allah yhadach 6la3tay mn elmawthoooo3 lol 😛

      yetzawejoon elli yetzawejona bs el ahal la yetfalsefon 3la bnat el awadem wegolon la mana5eth’ha coz ehya mo a9eela!!! y3ni el ajnabeya el a9eela mathalan? wella elli matadre meno oboha wella omha! shay mayshabeh shay!

      yalla meta i c u?! 🙂

  27. Zabo0o6a

    قال تعالى” وخلقناكم شعوبا وقبائل لتعارفوا ، إان أكرمكم عند الله أتقاكم”

    اصيل ولا مو أصيل عند رب العباد يوم الحساب؟ شنو بيفيد الأصل ولا غيره؟ كلنا بنتحاسب يميع وكلنا بنفس الحفرة، يالله حسن الخاتمة !
    ناس سطحية وماعندها سالفة !

    • 9edagtay wallah! kelena bashar o kelena eb net7asab yemee3 yom elqeyama la ra7 ynf3 la a9el wala fa9el!

  28. i showed the post to my cousins bl zwara on friday
    our comments: ahhh baradtay chabdna 😉

  29. I think nowadays il rayal ohwaa ili met’tharer mn hal salfa la2ana il rayal ili mo a9eel ghalibaan ma ya36oonah il 3awayel il a9eelah banat’hoom lakin il 3aks mo dayman 9a7ee7 .. il a9eel as’hal lah nesbeyaan ina yakheth bint mo a9eela .. Lakin il mawthoo3 ib kobra qilaat 3agel w taqleel mn qimaat ba3ath khalg allah .. lakin allah il hadee ..:) w good to see you keeping up with ur posts .. i’ve been offline for a couple of months w tawnee sheft ur posts there great .. keep it up

    • where hv u been man @@?! I thought smth was wrong with u :/

      u too get back to posting and u’re right! kel hasowalif malha da3i bel asas!

  30. لطالما قُلت ، الفكر عندنا فكر عشائري قبلي ، بغض النظر حضري بدوي ، عيمي اعرُبي

    المشكله ان العادات والتقاليد والفكر “المتجمد” ، يطغى حتى على الدين عندنا

    مشكله يا خويتي مشكله 😛

    وشكرا ع الموضوع ، ” ونايس بلوج “

  31. Do you realize that you just committed the same error that you criticized those discriminating Kuwaiti mothers for? I hope you do. Just like those Kuwaiti mothers discriminate against women who don’t have an approved “noble” last name, you too discriminate against foreign women and the Kuwaiti men who marry them. Yes, we all know what the western lifestyle entails and everyone knows that pre-marital sexual relations are rampant over there, but why do you assume that all Kuwaiti men who marry western women pick them up from the street or something? For your information, some will look into their backgrounds and make a proper selection. Remember, discrimination and baseless generalizations are always deplorable no matter who they apply to, whether it’s “noble” vs “non-noble” Kuwaitis, or just “Kuwaitis” vs “foreigners”. Thanks.

    • and do you think I really care? that was my intention from the beginning! i’m only talking about my country, my culture & traditions!

      in saying that sm of the men check the western ladies background, r u saying that he will discover that she’s a VIRGIN @@?! I doubt that! starting 14 or 15 they start hving sex and unsaved most of the time because they’re young and don’t hv a clue! and continue on having sex over and over again with as many men as they can get! and don’t tell me that they only hv sex with just 1? that will be harsh on them don’t u think so?!

      and do you think that they will really look into their backgrounds? now we both know how agencies for adopting kidz over their work? will he really hv the time and resources to find who she really is just to please his sweet mommy or himself that she’s a legitimate child? who r u trying to fool, me or yourself! let’s say one or two did! what about the others!

      and you’re welcome 🙂

  32. agnostic8

    I’m a kuwaiti who, most likely, won’t marry a kuwaitiya when i get married for reasons i will mention later on. kuwaiti men can be classified into different types. 1) the religious who usually marries whom his family will suggest to him (religion prevents him from looking up himself i.e. gf or friendship) this most likely let a religious kuwaitiya get married. 2) the playboy who after a long period of getting what he wants will finally settle to have kids. he either marries the one he likes the most (one out of a bunch of kuwaitiyat) or lets his family look for him for someone with no history of being a playgirl (usually a teenager [pre-university, high school]). 3) a9eel, who also most likely let his family choose for him due to scarce numbers of applicable candidates. 4} the open-minded who will ultimately look for someone they like or let their parents take them from home to home until they find someone they like.
    from what’ve i said up there you may conclude that chances of getting married for kuwaitiyat who aren’t relegious or a9eela are lower than the a9eela and religious. so this problem may be come common through a group of friends while another group will find it most likely not that big of a problem (3noosa that is).
    now why won’t i marry a kuwaitya, 1) marrying a kuwaitiya is very expensive (up to 20,000 KD including 3ers, mahar, deblah, etc..) 2) most of kuwaitiyat these days don’t know a thing about home-making (cooking, cleaning, taking care of a baby, etc.) 3) kuwaitiyat rely too much on 5adam in every menial task. (to me 5adam aren’t necessary, my wife and i should make things ourselves, including washing dishes and cleaning bathrooms) 4) most of kuwaitiyat want to go outside almost everyday (malls, restaurants, family visits, monasabat) they just don’t know how to be independent and how to save money for important things instead of buying lexury they can’t afford (“gimme money so i can a dress i’ll use for my sister’s wedding and i’ll have to buy a gift for her too, just a few hundred dinars” “my friend’s wedding is next week (same story)” “my cousin’s next friday” wtf) 5) this is a more personal thing, i renounced Islam and became an Agnostic, muslim women aren’t allowed to marry non-muslims unless they go against their religion and family, this can be easily avoided by just saying that i’m not a practising muslim, but in the end i choose to remain true to myself and to the one who’ll i share my life with. unless a non-muslim kuwaitiya exists with the kind of personal opinions i agree with then most likely i won’t marry a kuwaitiya.
    by the way, i accept debates regarding religion if anyone interested but don’t approach me unless u’re certain with your debate abilities and facts or i’ll eat u alive

    • 1- Kuwaiti girls are much better than you and that’s why you know you can’t marry one coz she will be too good for you as your wife!

      2- My 2 best friends are pure Kuwities (mother & father) and they’re happily married with kidz and they hv no MAID! P.S. they come from very good families, so money is not an issue here!

      3- you’re just too closed minded to see that you generalized and stereotyped all the Kuwaiti girls. Illiterate.

      4- Seriously? Who would marry such a mind?! Kuwaiti girls are way to educated and well mannered to even think about marrying you!!!

      5- If you’re agnostic then how will you be able to debate religion exactly?! “eat me alive” <– are you a fool or smth?!

      6- You're not worth debating coz you're not worth the time nor the resources!

      • agnostic8

        it seems that you took this personally. this was meant as a expression of my point of view not an attack to anyone. I know that there are a lot of ladies that the things i’ve said don’t apply to. as for the debate, it was meant to anyone who is reading the comments and who is also interested in debating (i love debates & philosophy. others love video games or tv or going to the gym. it a hobby of mine) and since i was mentioning my beliefs it came to my thought to just see if someone is interested for a thoughtful debate. sorry if i was lame and/or disrespectful

  33. hameedosh

    ماشاء الله موضوع مميز وبالصميم وانا معاج في كل اللي قلتيه

  34. ladyjow

    strongly agree… elrsol 9la alah 3leh wslm magal lazm atzwj a9ela cos ana rasol.. bl3ks akhth mn kl elajnas 3shan ywazn o y3dl enhm..ena akrmkm 3nd alah atqakom mo a9lkom ??:/ malat..chan zen yt3thon

  35. ba3dtna althrooof

    Akheeeeeeeh klamch bil sameem walla , ana 7bait wa7d mw aseel ou lmn dra ena 3ayltna ma y36on ela aseeleen ebt3ad 3ni 3shan ana la at2athaa walla ana abeh ou mw hamni al asl bs althroof agwa thank you

    • shetsaween b3d dear, u were born in this family that has this mentality. allah yarzegech benee9eb ezeen ya rb elli yqadrech o y7ebbech o y3ezzech 🙂

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